Men try to create a sensual atmosphere to excite and turn a woman on. The best way is to make lovemaking interesting. This is why more men and women are exploring Anal Play in one form or another. It can involve fingering, licking and toys which may give a lot more than just intercourse. Still for some reason anal play seems very taboo but it’s absolutely healthy as well as normal when applied in the right way and at the right time.
Many women have even report that they experience mind-blowing orgasms when combining vaginal and anal play. You might be really surprised to see your partner’s explosive response by using anal play the next time in bed. She might probably not agree at first, but if you slowly and gently introduce anal play into your lovemaking, of course with her permission, she may start to enjoy it. If nothing else, probably the two of you can add variation to your sex life.
Anal Play is not similar to Anal Sex
Most people get stuck on the idea that anal stimulation is a part or may be same thing as anal sex which is not true! Anal sex only includes anal intercourse or penetration whereas anal play is more about tantalizing and fantasy. The anus is a delicate area surrounded with very sensitive nerve endings. This makes it an exciting erogenous zone. So when one stimulates this area, it arouses her and increases her pleasure in an unexpected way. If it’s your first experience with anal play in lovemaking, don’t press for anal sex. Keep your complete focus on pleasuring her, and then adding a little anal stimulation to make things exciting. Make sure that she is comfortable.
Oral Sex & Anal Stimulation
The best time to introduce anal play is while you’re giving her cunnilingus. This is when you stimulate female genitals using the tongue or lips. As you bring her to the peak of arousal with your tongue, lightly circle the rim of her anus with your finger, stimulating all those nerve endings. If she allows you to move further, use a little of her natural lubrication to moisten your finger and then gently begin the fingering by insert just the tip of it into her anus. Try a gentle shunting motion if she permits and make her feel the best.
Anal Stimulation & Intercourse position
Find the most comfortable position to introduce anal play during vaginal intercourse. Use the same technique outlined above to gently arouse her by stimulating her anus. You can try different sexual positions like, rear-entry, woman-on-top and reverse cowgirl to give you plenty of opportunities in anal play. This technique is especially effective when you find her nearing orgasm. Remember to use only the tip of your finger, and don’t get carried away with the flow!
Anal Stimulation & Sex Toys
Most couples prefer to experiment with anal sex toys during oral sex or intercourse. The benefit for women is that they’ll be able to enjoy both vaginal and anal stimulation at once. Talk about it with your lady, and if she seems receptive, pick out a few different kinds of toys. You’ll have plenty to choose from—adult stores and e-tailers offer vibrating toys, insertable toys and toys that combine both forms of stimulation.
Being Safe and Sure
It’s important to remember two safety concerns regarding anal play. First, her anus produces not much natural lubrication, so make sure you have a bottle of lube nearby so you don’t injure her. Make sure to trim and file your fingernails before anal sex or play as anal tissues are delicate and can be torn easily. Also, once you’ve penetrated her with a finger, a toy or your penis, don’t put it back into her vagina or you’ll risk exposing her to bacteria. If you use products to boost sexual pleasure, don’t interchange them between her anus and vagina, and always wash them thoroughly before storing them. Keep all this in mind and make anal play safe and pleasurable.