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10 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Valentine’s Day is approaching and you want to make this day and especially night unforgettable! We have gathered 10 tips for you to make the most of them and you will not be disappointed.

1. Communication

Communicating with your partner about desires and fantasies is essential to build trust and spice up your sex life. Your partner can’t read your mind so don’t be shy or sheepish - simply having an open-minded conversation will undoubtedly allow you to spend magical, intense and unforgettable moments together.


2. New Places

A comfy hotel room? Or the fitting room of a store? It can be exciting to have fun in places other than your bedroom. Breaking routines can be key to spicing up your sex life. But be careful not to offend others if you go for risky places.

New Places

3. New Positions

Like trying out new places, new positions also allow you to break the routine and give way to more passion. For inspiration, you can look to the Kamasutra - an ancient Hindu text on eroticism.

New Positions

4. Sexting

Sexting can be an exciting way to increase sexual tension with your partner. Try sending a naughty text while at a dinner party with your partner. Or maybe a cheeky photo when he or she is at work to build up the sexual tension for when they come home. Remember you don't have to be too explicit. Work more on the vague, the suggested. Guaranteed effect!


5. Word Of Affirmation

When it comes to the language of love, communication plays a vital role in the passionate relationship of any couple. Try being vocal in bed, expressing your pleasures and desires during intimate relations lets your partner know how good they make you feel, helping them feel more loved.

Palavra de Afirmação

6. Role-play

If you feel comfortable with your partner, why not turn up the heat with a few role-plays? This is an opportunity to live out your deepest desires and to spice up your sex life! You can pretend to meet for the first time at a bar or restaurant or you can opt to become a sexy nurse or an irresistible school teacher.


7. Lingerie

Want to feel more sexy and feminine? Lingerie is what you need! It’s a great way to boost your confidence and men love it. Even if you’ve already bagged your Valentine, it shouldn’t stop you from surprising them from time to time. Some love the classic lingerie, others prefer more naughty and provocative styles.


8. Toys

Together with the sexy underwear, you can introduce accessories that will make it more playful. Handcuffs, vibrators and other toys for both nipple play and g-spot stimulation - as long as you feel comfortable, these can be exciting additions to your sex life and take you to the next level.


9. Sensual Massage

It’s often said that the simplest things are the best. Exploring each others’ bodies with a provocative massage can teach you about sensuality and awaken pleasure.

Sensual Massage

10. Take A Different Path

If you feel adventurous why not try anal intimacy? It can be painful but it doesn’t have to be. ShytoBuy has the solution for you: Female Anal Relax the cooling and soothing lubricant helps you to get the most of this exciting experience.

Take A Different Path